Why Lord Brahma could not guide his Grand Son RAVANA to become a good person?

RAVANA was a grand Son of Lord Brahma , RAVANA was son of  Vishrava and Kaikesi  , RAVANA was the brother of Lord KUBER & 5 others having significant name in history.

This blog is to put my opinion why parents push a child so much into something which appears a good aim for a parent but not necessary to follow a right way to ask your kid to achieve it. If parents writes life of a child, then Lord Brahma could had saved RAVANA by not letting do things which were against mankind.

I tried to ask Google about what all sins Ravana did , i found just few which were strong enough to conclude that he certainly was a bad guy. RAVANA was an intelligent person, good singer, devotee etc.. but if someone stabs you and kidnaps your wife, but claims that he is a good singer & devotee, will you pardon him? Oh yes he certainly was a rapist too but because of curse of  vedavati later he had to stop it (Curse was if he touched any woman without her consent, he will burn)

Anyways , apart from this Sin, i did not found much against him. 

So this blog is not to discuss history of Ravana but to correlate it with few other things !!!

Our world wide history had various kings who did various sins related to women, kids , mankind etc, they were registered in history as kings who got defeated by another king for so and so reason. Kings who  killed the other king was never termed as a God unlike we do to Shri Ram. Even a strong leader like Hitler did various sins against mankind, USA & alliance fought against Hitler to bring injustice to end but USA was never termed to become a God.

Point is, a grandson of Creator Brahma got diverted into bad actions , so in those years if God Brahma himself was not able to hold his grandson back from doing sins, should we then expect our generations kids to follow our principles ?  Just saying that Ravana became worshiper of shiva and attaining powers took him into wrong directions would not be okay, if that is okay, then we could also say our generation kids got too much educated and earned lot of money to do misbehave with their own parents or society? Or too much Physically strong person in shadow of his power does sins or crimes or misuses his power on weaker person. ? Or is it like people who get into power of Politics, money, etc which allows them to misuse their powers!!! are these all categories not as bad as the category of ego which lead RAVANA to perform sin & became so bad Guy in history!

The real reason could be which path we choose makes us a better person or a weaker person. Its not about what our family tree belongs to. Brother of Ravana ,Kuber choose different path so he became a better person in history.  If parents are good, its not important a child would be good unless a child put his own effort to build his own life a better place to be recognized for. If parents are bad, its not necessary a child would be followed series of Bad . 

Moral of this post is -

1) We at times takes references from history that Ravana was bad, so we must be having an impression that all the family kids born after his DNA would also be bad. Which is not true Logically ! So if we meet anyone whose parents were bad / accused / suffered from any criminal cases does not mean that their kids would also be the one, so we should not feel distant against such kids  / person.

2) Each person born in world selects his own paths with or without proper guidance of parents.

3) Parents could just guide children with utmost guidance but cannot make their child as they want, if that was true, God Brahma would have not left that option to make his Grandson let do whatever was not desired . So we should not push our kids so much, we should let our kids do whatever they want, with a little guidance of ours.